Thursday, June 7, 2018

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker



Let your light so shine that the world may see your good works!

(I'm suspending this blog as I continue on my book writing journey. Please read the many articles and info posted here. Join the ranks and many blessings to you.)

"Tension is who you think you should be; relaxation is who you are." Chinese Proverb


"Stress believes everything is an emergency." Natalie Goldberg

"Enjoy the little things in life. For one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Rev. Richard Kent Matthews


"Intuition: The uncanny 6th sense which convinces people they're right, whether they are or not." Rev. Richard Kent Matthews


"Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted." Ralph Waldo Emerson


"Wisdom is the principle thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all thy getting, get understanding." Proverbs 4:7



Thursday, May 31, 2018

Conscious Success in Seven Simple Steps...If You're Up for It

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker



Follow your own road without apologies!

Success happens first in your mind, your heart, and your decisions. Only then, in your world!

Writer Christopher Morley (1890-1957) wrote that the only real success is to live your life in your own way. So, no matter what I say, or anyone says, in books, Sunday sermons, articles, or screaming parents, if you're not living according to your own rules, that is, without hurting anyone else, success may seem elusive. Others can often talk you out of what you want to do.

Don't let them do that!

Here's the secret. Follow these seven steps and you're on the road to your definition of success. The steps are not rules; just guidelines and ultimately, guide posts. Have fun.

Intention: First, know what the heck you want. This can be one of the most difficult places to be. You've so many choices. And voices in your head and ear. Listen to your gut instinct. If it's wrong, you'll know soon enough. And, if necessary, a trusted advisor who has your best interests at heart, not their own.

Invention: Make it up. All directions, all possibilities, are available to you. You're limited only by your own choices.

Direction: Scan the horizon, look at the inner maps, even ask for help. But head out. Like it or not, our earthly journey is shorter than you may think.

Connection: It may sound contradictory to what I said above, but none of us succeeds alone. When you need help, ask. And develop your powers of discernment. Important!

Expectation: Hold a good picture in your mind about the outcome you desire,  but more important, hold a picture, or pictures, of the process. See the steps you need to take. The 'Final Outcome' is blurry anyway, so focus more on the process. Even with the best of our visualizations, we are often surprised. 

Reflection: Every day, review your progress. Even if you fail occasionally, it's still progress. Failure is part of it. Work it into your equations. It's often gold. We learn more from our mistakes than our successes. 

Appreciation: From the very beginning, adopt the gratitude attitude. It's more than just a thank you; it's a necessary discipline. Each day, practice by consciously expressing gratitude for everything in your life. Start in the morning with your bed, your sheets, your clock radio or cell phone wake up. Your bathroom, your kitchen, the fact you have a roof over your head. Wherever you are, thank it for holding you up. Even if you're on the streets. Gratitude is the beginning of the way home. 

The more conscious you are, the more aware you are, the more likely you are to reach whatever goal or achievement you create. 

Simple. Not always easy. But not that difficult, either.

Don't forget to subscribe to this blog. And have a great day, a great year, a great life!

Thursday, May 24, 2018

Mindfulness: A Simple Approach

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker



Mindfulness...

To receive this present moment in an open and welcoming manner. Paying attention to Now with a gentle and aware focus.


A new day, a new beginning. Sun rising over the Sea of Cortez, Mexico

Thursday, May 17, 2018

Success! The Simplest Three Keys You'll Ever Need

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker

You can burst forth when you know the 'secrets'!!
You can have what you want if you are determined enough! You are, right?

"There is no chance, no destiny, no fate that can circumvent or hinder or control the firm resolve of a determined soul." 
Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850-1890)

Do you really want to succeed...at anything? Here are the three keys. Apply them and you won't know what hit you...successfully speaking, that is!
  1.  Clarity: Know what you want, know your direction, write it all down.
  2. Charity: Be willing to give back. No one succeeds alone. Write down what you'll share in return for your success.
  3. Gratitude: It's not just a simple 'thank you' but a discipline. Open your mind to being grateful for everything. Even the drawbacks. It's not an easy discipline, to be sure. But with practice, not only will you nail it, you'll see changes for the good that you can't even imagine at this moment.
There you go. Nutshell advice. Follow it and you're guaranteed to win. Don't follow it and, well, I did my best!

Blessings and don't forget to subscribe to this blog! 

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Abundance Now! How the Law of Attraction Really Works in Three Very Simple Steps

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker

How to find your Pot of Gold!

What do you want?

Today, three simple questions for you. Get clear on these and most anything is possible.
  1. If money didn't matter, how would you spend your time? Be as honest and detailed as possible.
  2. When you think you want abundance in any form, ask yourself why. Again, dig deep. Find the reasons. Don't judge them. Just find them. Observe your responses.
  3. What are you willing to give in return for your abundance? That can take many forms from work to art to giving money itself. It's important that you know what it is.
Often when we say we want more abundance or prosperity in our lives, we're not really thinking it through.

My suggestion is to make sure you KNOW what you really want. Discover why you want it. And be willing to give back.

It really can't get much simpler than that. Difficult, maybe, because most of us tend to avoid getting clear on our desires. We'd rather whine than get specific.

Don't whine. Get clear. Be willing to share. And watch what happens. 

Now you know how the Law of Attraction really works. What are you going to do about it?

Blessings and much joy to you.

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Thursday, May 3, 2018

Gratitude

The only prayer you ever need: Thank you!
"Gratitude is way more than a feeling. It's an aware choice, an action taken both before and after full understanding of gratitude's power and redemptive qualities."


Rev. Richard Kent Matthews

Thursday, April 26, 2018

Conscious Kindness: How to Feel Happier in THIS Moment

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker


The kinder you are, the more you shine!


Did you know being kind can be the key to new joy?

Kindness means a whole lot more than just being the ‘nice guy.’ It can help your heart and prolong your life!

You may have read a lot of material, seen a lot of videos, or daytime talk show guests espouse and tout the glories of kindness, or compassion. In some cases, they make it sound almost like thick syrup. Sweetsy, cuddly, almost ‘girly.’ After all, macho isn't kind, right? Wrong.

It’s none of that.

Thursday, April 19, 2018

Perfect Life: The Road to Boredom

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker


Life is like a stained glass window. Beautiful until you look up close!


Every now and then, I like to repost this little quotation from John-Roger. 



What If?
(From Life 101 by John-Roger)


What if life were perfect? 

'What if you lived in a perfect world of perfect people and perfect possessions, with everyone and everything doing the perfect thing at the perfect time? What if you had everything you wanted, and only what you wanted, exactly as you wanted, precisely when you wanted it? What if, after a perfect length of time, you decided, “Perfection is a perfect bore!” 

Thursday, April 12, 2018

How to Unclench: Three Steps to Ahhhhh!

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker


Let your best colors shine through. 

What you really want is to relax. Here's how!

“We carry within us the wonders we seek [outside] us.” Sir Thomas Browne

You’re seeking something. You’re not sure what it might be, but you know something is missing. Perhaps it’s a relationship? Or a new career? Or a different kind of spiritual walk? Maybe a new car, a new home, or a new city. Yeah, that’s it. If you just move to another city, start over, and get clear, all your challenges will be over, problems solved.

No.

Thursday, April 5, 2018

How Fear Can Be Your Best Asset

By Richard Kent Matthews - Coach | Author | Speaker



You're always still under construction. Don't give up so close to the goal!


"There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: Fear of failure." Paulo Coelho

So, you're afraid you won't succeed at your most important goals, eh? Well, you might not--yet. But so what? Failure is often part,  even a major part, of success. Persistence, though, can turn failure into fabulous! 

How we allow fear to work against us:
  • Procrastination--it's easier to just sit there.
  • Pretending it doesn't matter--after all, so what, eh?
  • Listening to the naysayers--they might be right!
  • Giving up--it couldn't possibly work.
  • Lying about it--it's not something anyone wants.
  • Sour grapes--oh, well, didn't really want to do it, anyway!
How we can make it work in our favor:
  • Start with small steps--that's not so scary.
  • Remember it's only a thought--the mind plays tricks, caution.
  • Move a little more each day--head in the direction of success.
  • Hang around uplifting people--they'll be supportive.
  • Get up!--hardest part, getting started. Do it now, something small.
  • Practice gratitude daily--by remembering the good in your life right now. Write it down. Journal.
Fear is a powerful emotion and serves valuable purposes. It can also be a major block to success on every level. Recognizing it for what it is, is the first real step to moving beyond it, using it, thanking it for doing its job.

Failure? So what? Most of the greatest successes have failed many times before reaching their goals. You're in good company.

Start small, move a little, be grateful.